This is crazy.. but even if the boys did ask to see her "minnie" in exchange for seeing their "willie"... at that age it's honestly harmless, they just don't understand the social connotation of it, and for them it's just a curious body part like any other. Except no one talks about this one. I think if there is anything sexual about it, it wasn't actually sexual it was just an imitation of what they hear... and I really would be surprised if they tried to rape her, when likely the biological drive for that isn't present, and they probably have no clear idea of what sex in general is.

Male's in the their youth often play with each others dicks, and show each other their dick. It's not something uncommon, and it's not viewed as sexual.

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But then why do REAL rape victims seem to have so much trouble being believed when THEY go to court!?

Any serious accusation, especially serious accusations, with large consequences involved both legal and social, need to be investigated thoroughly. People have committed suicide off of falsely being accused of rape, because their families turned on them, their friends wouldn't look at them... they couldn't convince people. They lose their jobs.. and then they commit suicide, and the person who accused them feels bad for their, lie, and they come out, and are like I was just getting back at them, because i was mad... it's crazy stuff. Very serious. You have to take it seriously and do your best to get to the truth of the matter. Vindicate if found innocent, and punish the accuser, and punish the accused if they're found guilty.

IF you're talking post-purberty, we'r eon different pages. If we're talking around 8 perhaps even up 10ish.. Then we're talking about the same thing. I personally don't recall that kind of behavior in my youth, only thing i remember is peeing in the same toilet at the same time as another kid in like Kindergarten, and he pissed on my pants, on purpose, i was pissed (punny huh?).

Edit: If people are curious I'll see if i can find a reliable website to link to, on children development, to learn more, and verify what i'm saying. The age range was off of memory, but the general content I do remember from reading specific studies.

I read through this site it covers a broad range of child development, but it writes it in short paragraphs, so should be easy to follow: http://kidshealth.org/parent/growth/sexual_health/development.html#