joshwoodzell wrote:

I share my passwords for everything with my woman because we trust each other. Is that out of the question in your case? I use facebook to talk to friends who have moved away and so does she. It's not as big a deal as your making it. I'm not singling you out man, anytime you think I'm being a dick just assume I am being hyperbolic.

I appreciate that Josh. No, we definitely share passwords/bills/money, as like I said before, it isn't a trust issue that makes me uncomfortable with her using it.

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I just don't think that it's ever healthy for one partner to "forbid" anything in a relationship, even if it's mutual. I think the underlying trust/control issues such forbidding implies would do more to erode the relationship than anything else.

When I said "forbade", I was being hyperbolic. Obviously in 2009, the husband can't really enforce any kind of prohibition on the wife. We live in free times where women can do as they please. What really happened is I expressed that I was uncomfortable with it, as she would be if I suddenly jumped onto Facebook and got in touch with ex-girlfriends, and we both agreed that the potential problems far outweighed any reason for us to use it.