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Slayer1
Title: ,,!,, for you know who
Joined: Sep 23 2008
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| Whatever happened to you know... Spanking, Disiplinary actions and Grounding? Is it really that hard? |
parents nowadays don't like spanking, for some reason. It worked on me, so idk why people stopped.
And I don't mean abuse. A simple spanking just to keep you in line. |
I got spanked when I mis-behaved and when I swore I got the back hand... alot. But I mean it made me realize that if I did something wrong I'll be in pain, which I didn't want so I was a good child.
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anorexorcist
Title: Polar Bear
Joined: May 21 2008
Location: The Cock and Plucket
Posts: 2131
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| It's about time parents did SOMETHING to discipline their children, even if all they're doing is asserting their dominance, and not slapping the kid upside the head like they fucking deserve. |
Ya, just think what it would have been like if you were properly disciplined, maybe you wouldn't be such a douche conoe.  .
I'm not 100% sure about this, but I know my young nephews would improve from being treated the same way as dogs. I'm not going to go into too much detail, but the youngest nephew of mine shits on the lawn, so I can't see how treating him like a dog(kind of the way he acts) would have too much of a negative affect on him. If you act like an animal, be prepared to be treated as such.
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Doddsino
Joined: Oct 01 2009
Posts: 5316
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| Slayer1 wrote: |
| Whatever happened to you know... Spanking, Disiplinary actions and Grounding? Is it really that hard? |
parents nowadays don't like spanking, for some reason. It worked on me, so idk why people stopped.
And I don't mean abuse. A simple spanking just to keep you in line. |
Exactly, if anything it didn't hurt physically, but was more embarassing.
It seems like medicating your kids was the craze during the mid-90's. All those kids are fucking emo pussies now.
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Deadmau_5pra
Title: Amatuer film/podcaster
Joined: Feb 10 2009
Location: Chicago Area
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You know what I find kind of interesting how people (not directed at anyone on this board) seems to thrive on discipling their kids (wether physically or mentally) and yet we shun things like spousal abuse.
Because basically it's the same primises "You didn't do what I say, so therefore this is why your getting punished" etc.
Just a thought.
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Rydog
Title: Dragon Slayer
Joined: Aug 11 2009
Location: Massachusetts
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It isn't the same premise....kids need to be taught lessons because they are ignorant. You are comparing that to an adult abusing an adult for not doing what they want.
And for the record, you can teach your kids lessons without abuse, it just takes more work...any fucktard can yell and spank their kids.
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Ljusdahl
Title: Man of inaction.
Joined: Sep 03 2007
Location: Chair
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Yet again parents turn to something other than themselves to raise their kids.
If you don't know how to raise a kid, either...
A) assuming the kid is not mentally deprived, manage the situation like a responsible adult and understand that it is YOURSELF you need to blame, not TV or video games. Then do something about it YOURSELF. It is not the bad influences that make bad people, it is the lack of guidance.
Basic understanding of child psychology would get you a long way.
B) don't get one in the first place!
Same thing goes for dogs. People get them without knowing how to treat them. Dress them up in little sweaters under the impression that they like it, or yell at them as though they'd understand what you're saying.
It's a strange world we're coming to, where dogs are treated as children, and children are treated as dogs.
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Blackout
Title: Captain Oblivious
Joined: Sep 01 2007
Location: That Rainy State
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Greg the White
Joined: Apr 09 2008
Location: Pennsylvania
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The problem with spankings is the fact that it's just that- a spanking. I know a family that believes that the spanking is the first and last word in child-care there is, and the problem is that it's only a temporary form of punishment. If you spank a kid every time it does something bad, that's it- it's just a spanking that's going to sting their butt for a few seconds, and the kid will get over it. Punishment is the last resort for anything.
Parenting from what I gather is a lot like managing employees. It's always best to earn respect. Be something that your children/employees will aspire to. Put yourself in a position where they will do anything for you because they respect you. I've had managers who have tried to hard to be their employees' friends, and have had the workers walk all over them, while I've had the overly-tyrannical managers who are so full of hate and punishment that everyone resents them and would rather quit than work one more day from them. You want that ground where you want those under you to follow you and find any time they disappoint you, they disappoint themselves.
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