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Michael Phelps and his ex-TRANSGENDER HUMAN BEING


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Count_Akula
Title: Sir Galahad
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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 02:06 am Reply with quote Back to top

So that Olympic swimmer dude Mike Phelps was banging a chick who was born with a wang-chung. What are your thoughts? This is her (Taylor Chandler):

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Count_Akula
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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 02:08 am Reply with quote Back to top

HOWARD STERN INTERVIEW: http://youtu.be/GsxuBKJXBK4
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JoshWoodzy
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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 03:19 am Reply with quote Back to top

What am I supposed to think about it? Seems like as much of a non issue as "Random guy dates/bangs random girl!"

Unless she was completely deceptive about being born with a dick before being intimate, which is a big no-no, even in the mainstream trans/intersex community.

Regardless, this is tabloid shit. Coming up, Bat Boy found in cave, brought to you by Weekly World News!

Also, NSFW tag that pictures. It may not be explicit, but it's still a naked person, and most of us don't want that popping up at work.

EDIT : Now I see pictures of her modeling with guys who are wearing swim shorts and sporting gold medals trying to capitalize on the fact that she might have fucked Michael Phelps. Oh and shooting a porno with Vivid called "Going for the Gold" with a Michael Phelps lookalike. She's an attention whore, end of story I guess.


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Count_Akula
Title: Sir Galahad
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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 09:55 am Reply with quote Back to top

JoshWoodzy wrote:
What am I supposed to think about it? Seems like as much of a non issue as "Random guy dates/bangs random girl!"

Unless she was completely deceptive about being born with a dick before being intimate, which is a big no-no, even in the mainstream trans/intersex community.

Regardless, this is tabloid shit. Coming up, Bat Boy found in cave, brought to you by Weekly World News!

Also, NSFW tag that pictures. It may not be explicit, but it's still a naked person, and most of us don't want that popping up at work.

EDIT : Now I see pictures of her modeling with guys who are wearing swim shorts and sporting gold medals trying to capitalize on the fact that she might have fucked Michael Phelps. Oh and shooting a porno with Vivid called "Going for the Gold" with a Michael Phelps lookalike. She's an attention whore, end of story I guess.


Word. Yeah I just thought it was weird because like, she never did tell him about being born with a schlong. Don't seem too cool in my book of stuff or something.. uh-huh-huh-huh-huh..
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Cameron
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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 01:20 pm Reply with quote Back to top

I don't think I'd particularly care about sleeping with someone if they were born with a dick.


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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 02:44 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Everybody wang chung tonight!


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JoshWoodzy
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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 09:59 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Cameron wrote:
I don't think I'd particularly care about sleeping with someone if they were born with a dick.

Yeah, but many people who are 100% heterosexual do have a problem with that and I understand and sympathize. It's a big no-no to do in that community and it's always encouraged to be upfront and not deceptive about it. That's the biggest problem, deception with no intent on revelation is a shitty thing in any situation.


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Count_Akula
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PostPosted: Jan 14 2015 11:44 pm Reply with quote Back to top

JoshWoodzy wrote:
Cameron wrote:
I don't think I'd particularly care about sleeping with someone if they were born with a dick.

Yeah, but many people who are 100% heterosexual do have a problem with that and I understand and sympathize. It's a big no-no to do in that community and it's always encouraged to be upfront and not deceptive about it. That's the biggest problem, deception with no intent on revelation is a shitty thing in any situation.


Exactly. If your a straight dude and find out after the fact that you might have just hooked up with a he/she idk.. It's just not cool. Plus, this chick is running around telling his fucking business on every radio show in existence. Money grubbing freak!
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The Flaming Schnitzel
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PostPosted: Jan 15 2015 12:07 am Reply with quote Back to top

Count_Akula wrote:
JoshWoodzy wrote:
Cameron wrote:
I don't think I'd particularly care about sleeping with someone if they were born with a dick.

Yeah, but many people who are 100% heterosexual do have a problem with that and I understand and sympathize. It's a big no-no to do in that community and it's always encouraged to be upfront and not deceptive about it. That's the biggest problem, deception with no intent on revelation is a shitty thing in any situation.


Exactly. If your a straight dude and find out after the fact that you might have just hooked up with a he/she idk.. It's just not cool. Plus, this chick is running around telling his fucking business on every radio show in existence. Money grubbing freak!

This is why I honestly think this isn't true. There has literally been no comments on his end, so I'm very skeptical. Seems like another attention whore looking for her 15 minutes of fame.


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PostPosted: Jan 15 2015 02:54 am Reply with quote Back to top

Count_Akula wrote:
JoshWoodzy wrote:
Cameron wrote:
I don't think I'd particularly care about sleeping with someone if they were born with a dick.

Yeah, but many people who are 100% heterosexual do have a problem with that and I understand and sympathize. It's a big no-no to do in that community and it's always encouraged to be upfront and not deceptive about it. That's the biggest problem, deception with no intent on revelation is a shitty thing in any situation.


Exactly. If your a straight dude and find out after the fact that you might have just hooked up with a he/she idk.. It's just not cool. Plus, this chick is running around telling his fucking business on every radio show in existence. Money grubbing freak!

Calling them "he/she's" is pretty awful and disrespectful, regardless of what they've done.


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Cameron
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PostPosted: Jan 15 2015 03:06 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Count_Akula wrote:
JoshWoodzy wrote:
Cameron wrote:
I don't think I'd particularly care about sleeping with someone if they were born with a dick.

Yeah, but many people who are 100% heterosexual do have a problem with that and I understand and sympathize. It's a big no-no to do in that community and it's always encouraged to be upfront and not deceptive about it. That's the biggest problem, deception with no intent on revelation is a shitty thing in any situation.


Exactly. If your a straight dude and find out after the fact that you might have just hooked up with a he/she idk.

While I'm genuinely trying to understand, the whole concept of caring is admittedly hard for me to comprehend due both to my not being 100% heterosexual and ever-so-compassionate individuals such as Count_Akula over here referring to people as "he/shes" when making the argument.

Like, I can understand the sentiment that it isn't deception (if someone is 100% comfortable within the gender they present themselves as, I can see why their previous gender would seem like a non-issue, especially after hormone therapy and sex reassignment), but I can also understand the sentiment that it is (for one thing, you can't have biological children with someone with a sex reassignment). I know this is an ugly topic of discussion, but I'm legitimately trying to wrap my brain around it.


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The Flaming Schnitzel
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PostPosted: Jan 15 2015 04:06 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Cameron wrote:
Count_Akula wrote:
JoshWoodzy wrote:
Cameron wrote:
I don't think I'd particularly care about sleeping with someone if they were born with a dick.

Yeah, but many people who are 100% heterosexual do have a problem with that and I understand and sympathize. It's a big no-no to do in that community and it's always encouraged to be upfront and not deceptive about it. That's the biggest problem, deception with no intent on revelation is a shitty thing in any situation.


Exactly. If your a straight dude and find out after the fact that you might have just hooked up with a he/she idk.

While I'm genuinely trying to understand, the whole concept of caring is admittedly hard for me to comprehend due both to my not being 100% heterosexual and ever-so-compassionate individuals such as Count_Akula over here referring to people as "he/shes" when making the argument.

Like, I can understand the sentiment that it isn't deception (if someone is 100% comfortable within the gender they present themselves as, I can see why their previous gender would seem like a non-issue, especially after hormone therapy and sex reassignment), but I can also understand the sentiment that it is (for one thing, you can't have biological children with someone with a sex reassignment). I know this is an ugly topic of discussion, but I'm legitimately trying to wrap my brain around it.

Personally, I don't think it's that big of a deal to know until you're in a long term relationship with someone for the reason you stated. If it's a one-night stand or just a casual thing, totally doesn't matter. I feel like that's info to share once you're in a committed relationship.


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PostPosted: Jan 15 2015 05:13 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Regardless, I think they're great for each other, because they're both ugly as fucking sin.


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PostPosted: Jan 15 2015 07:35 pm Reply with quote Back to top

I am going to have to agree with Woodzy's last point. Definitely ugly people.


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Count_Akula
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PostPosted: Jan 15 2015 11:03 pm Reply with quote Back to top

I wasn't trying to be disrespectful, honestly I have no clue what terms are ok or not when discussing someone who has both sex organs, I have never known anyone or met anyone in that kind of situation. Its really not something most people are familiar with.
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The Flaming Schnitzel
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PostPosted: Jan 16 2015 12:33 am Reply with quote Back to top

Count_Akula wrote:
I wasn't trying to be disrespectful, honestly I have no clue what terms are ok or not when discussing someone who has both sex organs, I have never known anyone or met anyone in that kind of situation. Its really not something most people are familiar with.

Not that fucking difficult, dude. You just go with whatever the person wants to be called. Besides, I believe that this woman has had surgery to only have female sex organs so she doesn't have both sex organs.


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Count_Akula
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PostPosted: Jan 16 2015 11:46 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Eh fuck it. I could give two fucks what this bitch wants to be called. Holy fucking sensitive Sally did I strike a nerve or what!?
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PostPosted: Jan 16 2015 11:58 pm Reply with quote Back to top

regardless of their current gender and the overarching topic of society's ever shifting attitudes regarding human sexuality: not being forthright with a partner is a total dick move, and shameless running of the mouth in public afterwords to the embarrassment of the aforementioned other half, is a total bitch move.

So it makes sense?



 
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PostPosted: Feb 27 2015 11:45 am Reply with quote Back to top

Well, he moved up.
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Count_Akula wrote:
Eh fuck it. I could give two fucks what this bitch wants to be called. Holy fucking sensitive Sally did I strike a nerve or what!?

You really gotta just err on the side of caution. Walking on eggshells is kind of the norm now. I had this super leftist friend who got on my case because I said "man-lady". We were talking about Thailand or some shit. I don't really get it, since it wasn't in a pejorative context, and there weren't any transgendered people around anyhow. I did once have a transgendered flight attendant, and it was really uncomfortable. Not because of the transgendered part, because I don't give a shit if you want to do that, as far as principle goes. It's the same discomfort as when I see those 50 year old women with plastic surgery to make themselves look younger but ends up turning them halfway into a hairless cat. So I hate that I have to be mature about this mound of plastic and silicone standing next to me with their sasquatch hands just because they happen to belong to what's considered an unusual portion of the population. I'm not stigmatizing your choice, you just look fuckin' alien. Not all of them, but every one I've seen, certainly. It's the same reaction I have to seeing a spider. It's an extremely alien form and it's unnerving.

I'm sure I'll catch shit for this, but when you grow up around people who jump at any chance to get offended, you tend to get pretty bitter. Am I really supposed to defy my instinct of uncomfortability just to protect everyone's feelings? And I'm hardly saying anyone should degrade them, but if I made even a semblance of a wince or expression of shock (which I came close to), I have no doubts that it would have raised a giant snafu and my ass would have been promptly removed from the plane. THAT is what's bullshit: you have to live in fear of offending people just because they have a lot of pull in society and are quick to raise hell. I should have at least been able to gasp, for Christ's sake. And no, I'm not saying I'm being oppressed or held down or whatever, I just think it's bullshit.
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Cameron
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thenose_knows wrote:
I'm sure I'll catch shit for this, but when you grow up around people who jump at any chance to get offended, you tend to get pretty bitter.

My problem with this line of thinking is that usually when someone claims that someone else is "jumping at any chance to get offended", it's not that they're "jumping" to be offended, they ARE offended. I don't mean to sound presumptuous, but I've met so many people who whine and complain about how they shouldn't have to take responsibility and deal with the consequences of saying something that could offend someone else.

If you want me to boil it down, it's a very simple cause-and-effect relationship: you say something mean about someone else that the other person is specifically made fun of or oppressed for, the other person gets offended. You are not the first person to hurt their feelings, and you definitely won't be the last, but everyone on the planet thinking they're both is part of the problem.
thenose_knows wrote:
Am I really supposed to defy my instinct of uncomfortability just to protect everyone's feelings?

Actually, yes.
thenose_knows wrote:
THAT is what's bullshit: you have to live in fear of offending people just because they have a lot of pull in society and are quick to raise hell. I should have at least been able to gasp, for Christ's sake.

Yeah guys, isn't it bullshit that minorities have rights?
thenose_knows wrote:
You really gotta just err on the side of caution. Walking on eggshells is kind of the norm now. I had this super leftist friend who got on my case because I said "man-lady". We were talking about Thailand or some shit. I don't really get it, since it wasn't in a pejorative context, and there weren't any transgendered people around anyhow. I did once have a transgendered flight attendant, and it was really uncomfortable. Not because of the transgendered part, because I don't give a shit if you want to do that, as far as principle goes. It's the same discomfort as when I see those 50 year old women with plastic surgery to make themselves look younger but ends up turning them halfway into a hairless cat. So I hate that I have to be mature about this mound of plastic and silicone standing next to me with their sasquatch hands just because they happen to belong to what's considered an unusual portion of the population. I'm not stigmatizing your choice, you just look fuckin' alien. Not all of them, but every one I've seen, certainly. It's the same reaction I have to seeing a spider. It's an extremely alien form and it's unnerving.

If you aren't attracted to someone, that's more than fine. I just don't seem to understand why you think it's okay to actively and vocally antagonize people essentially because you think they're ugly. Again, I don't mean to sound presumptuous, but this is mainly what I don't understand about people who are transphobic; I can definitely understand not wanting to be around someone or something that you don't understand or recognize, but why not just leave people alone entirely instead of saying hurtful things to/about them? At any rate, I'm almost certain that the fact the flight attendant was transgenderedhad little to no correlation with their job performance, so I see little reason why they should have to accommodate your discomfort if you aren't going to accommodate them.



tl;dr: Yes, you're allowed to feel uncomfortable. But you need to get over it and stop bitching about how much it's pissing other people off.


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PostPosted: Mar 02 2015 08:21 pm Reply with quote Back to top

Well said, Cam.


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Cameron wrote:
thenose_knows wrote:
I'm sure I'll catch shit for this, but when you grow up around people who jump at any chance to get offended, you tend to get pretty bitter.

My problem with this line of thinking is that usually when someone claims that someone else is "jumping at any chance to get offended", it's not that they're "jumping" to be offended, they ARE offended. I don't mean to sound presumptuous, but I've met so many people who whine and complain about how they shouldn't have to take responsibility and deal with the consequences of saying something that could offend someone else.

That's the key with both types of people. Nobody wants to take responsibility for their shithead behavior. There are people who go around saying dumbfuck things without thinking and there are also people who get "offended" by things they really are not offended by at all. Believe it or not you could make a living by being a loudmouth who gets "offended" by almost everything. Those types are pure scum and they capitalize on out overly obsessed with being politically correct culture. The other type is just lazy and could use some education on basic human social interactions.


thenose_knows wrote:
Am I really supposed to defy my instinct of uncomfortability just to protect everyone's feelings?

Cameron wrote:
Actually, yes.


Are you fucking kidding me? That's bullshit. If someone makes me feel uncomfortable, I reserve the right to tell them they are doing so, or to show my contempt, disgust, etc.

That way of thinking is exactly why everything has to be so PC nowadays and our society can't focus on real problems, like what to do about starving or homeless people.

That's a real slippery slope argument and just sad that we have reached that point in modern times.

"Muslim radicals are making me uncomfortable with their Islamic State and wanton murdering of non-believers, better just play it cool and let them behead everybody!"

See how easily that gets used against you? Stupid argument.




thenose_knows wrote:
THAT is what's bullshit: you have to live in fear of offending people just because they have a lot of pull in society and are quick to raise hell. I should have at least been able to gasp, for Christ's sake.

Cameron wrote:
Yeah guys, isn't it bullshit that minorities have rights?

I think you are not getting that he is fed up with the PC police hyper offended asshats. Just because there are not many where you live does not mean they are not out there for him to deal with. Maybe you should stop thinking with your feelings and use logic if you want to argue something instead of making a stupid counterpoint that just shows you can't understand the subtext of what he is trying to say. Also, the guy is definitely allowed to gasp if he sees something that shocks his sensibilities.

thenose_knows wrote:
So I hate that I have to be mature about this mound of plastic and silicone standing next to me with their sasquatch hands just because they happen to belong to what's considered an unusual portion of the population. I'm not stigmatizing your choice, you just look fuckin' alien. Not all of them, but every one I've seen, certainly. It's the same reaction I have to seeing a spider. It's an extremely alien form and it's unnerving.

Going to ignore Cam's comments here and point out that this is one of the stupidest statements I have ever read.

Do you have a mature reaction to a spider. or do you run around screaming like a little girl? If you are a child, sure, you don't have to be mature about it. However, if you are an adult then you absolutely have a responsibility to act in a mature way. Perhaps you could have said "Excuse me, dear flight attendant. Your hands resemble those of a Yeti my great grandfather once saw in his travels in the Himalayas many decades ago. Knowing how wise the abominable snowmen of the Himalayas are, I was wondering if you could give me some insight into whether I should invest my savings into Intel or AMD stocks, as you appear to have spent quite a bit in various forms of silicone to hide your differences and blend in with society to perform such a great job serving me on this fine flight today." Just a suggestion for your future interactions.


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