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Posted: Jun 02 2010 10:52 am

Ross Rifle wrote:

Yeah, I'm realizing more and more how much Lizzie is like your ex, Chi. Yesterday she wanted to call a pawn shop to see if they had Star Ocean, but since last time they said they didn't know, she was afraid to call.

Sounds like you were chasing my ex, Ross. But at least your girl was thinking about the possibility of calling...it wasn't an option for mine.

In this case, I started looking ahead to if we ever got married, and I realized that I would have to do EVERYTHING as far as bills, mortgage, etc., since I would have to be the one to make all the calls. That on top of working? No thanks, I want a woman who's capable of helping me out with that some.

Posted: Jun 02 2010 01:58 pm

I'd rather have an overly shy wife, than one who bitches at every customer service employee they interact with.

Posted: Jun 02 2010 02:05 pm

For sure, but overly shy can also be extremely annoying. It's just the other extreme. I had a really shy girlfriend once and it was like squeezing blood out of a stone to get a conversation out of her. The relationship lasted less than a month because every time we got together, it was nothing but weird awkward silences. Shy girls are also more often than not cold fish in bed and she was a terrible kisser. She was sweet as hell, but it was like dating a wax sculpture of a girl.

At least the crazy ones are wild in bed and are always a good time sexually. Just don't bring them out in public :p

Posted: Jun 03 2010 12:30 am

Pandajuice wrote:

For sure, but overly shy can also be extremely annoying. It's just the other extreme. I had a really shy girlfriend once and it was like squeezing blood out of a stone to get a conversation out of her. The relationship lasted less than a month because every time we got together, it was nothing but weird awkward silences. Shy girls are also more often than not cold fish in bed and she was a terrible kisser. She was sweet as hell, but it was like dating a wax sculpture of a girl.

At least the crazy ones are wild in bed and are always a good time sexually. Just don't bring them out in public :p

Well, we were capable of having conversations. But I concur with the "cold fish" thing. She had no idea how to kiss or to be sensual...her idea of foreplay was trying to make me bleed via bites and scratches.

Anyway, I'm honestly right now burned out on relationships. I think I'm going to just be a dick to every girl I meet from now on...I could use a one-night stand or two.

Title: General jackass Joined: Jul 29 2010 Posts: 182

My life really sucks right now. I just got into my first year of college. When I got there I realized I was almost completely out of gas, and I left my cell phone at home. Luckily it was a dorm so I could stay there and hopefully find a way home. I hooked up with this girl I met on the second day, and she said she could drive me to my house. We made a nice pair, we even had sex a couple times. So anyway when the first few weeks were over I decided to go back for a day or two. When I asked her if she could drive me then, she basically told me I was a douchebag, she was leading me on and that she didn't even have a car. I was fucking pissed. I wanted to punch her but I didn't want to look like a jerk in front of everyone. Then I realized my car had been towed because I had to park in the lot of some office building. I was pretty much screwed. So I whistled for a cab and when it came near the license plate said "fresh" and it had dice in the mirror, if this cab was anything then it was rare but I said nah forget it, yo home to bel-air!

Posted: Aug 14 2010 01:33 am

If that was all a build up for a Fresh Prince reference, kudos. You worked it up there.

If she really did all that shit to you, hey, at least you got sex, and your car would've gotten towed regardless, so yay for poon.

Joined: Nov 11 2009 Location: Cajun Country Posts: 1511

Well, you got me with that fresh prince bs.

Wizard Joined: Jun 12 2009 Posts: 4209

Nice one, MF. Got me..

Posted: Aug 14 2010 12:53 pm

Your copypasta needs more cheese.

Posted: Aug 14 2010 01:20 pm

Aeonic nailed this one.

Posted: Aug 17 2010 05:11 pm

I will never cease to be amazed by the absolutely cray-cray girls out there.

Chi, sounds like getting out of that relationship was the smart thing to do.

Posted: May 28 2011 07:08 pm

So, there's this girl at work. Most of the time she comes in with curly hair (her hair is naturally curly) and these ridiculous emo/hipster glasses. And then yesterday, she came into work with her hair straightened and contacts in, and she looked good. Like, REALLY REALLY good. But then today, she was back to the glasses and curly hair.

I'm debating whether or not I want to pursue her. I should make it clear that I only like her with the straight hair and without the glasses.

Wizard Joined: Jun 12 2009 Posts: 4209

Eh, probably not the best idea if you don't like the curly hair/glasses look. That sounds like her regular mode of operations, and if you make it sound as if you don't like her usual look, she'll most likely be discouraged and not want to be in a relationship...

On the other hand, if she by some odd chance likes you, then she'll probably be very willing to pick up a hint and start dressing the way you like. -shrugs- It's hard to tell.

On a list of my own problems... I hate disappointing girls. At all. Although sometimes I realize it was the right thing. Little bitch in my school asked if I was gay when I turned her down, made me realize I was a hell of a lot better without her if she was going to be a presumptuous ass... But on the broader point, I hate disappointing people.

Joined: May 22 2008 Location: Goshen, VA Posts: 6544

Drew Linky wrote:

Little bitch in my school asked if I was gay when I turned her down

LOL

Come on man, it's funny.

Wizard Joined: Jun 12 2009 Posts: 4209

joshwoodzy wrote:

Drew Linky wrote:

Little bitch in my school asked if I was gay when I turned her down

LOL

Come on man, it's funny.

Looking back on it, sure. It was funny as hell. But at the time it was ridiculously humiliating, because she's (to be frank) a dumpy little witch who looks 45 already.

That having been said... I laugh when I think about it, even if I sound angry about it.

Posted: May 28 2011 09:42 pm

This girl basically wanted me to come over, hook up with her, and purposely get caught just to piss off her mom. She obviously doesnt understand that it makes me uncomfortable and very questioning of her morales and personality. But fuck it i go over there, and we start kissing and stuff, and RIGHT BEFORE her mom walks down into the basement she goes directly for my pants and starts to unbutton them. Her mom comes down, freaks, then gives us a 40 minute lecture about teens being abstinent. I dont understand girls at all and i dont think i ever will

Wizard Joined: Jun 12 2009 Posts: 4209

SnesGuy wrote:

This girl basically wanted me to come over, hook up with her, and purposely get caught just to piss off her mom. She obviously doesnt understand that it makes me uncomfortable and very questioning of her morales and personality. But fuck it i go over there, and we start kissing and stuff, and RIGHT BEFORE her mom walks down into the basement she goes directly for my pants and starts to unbutton them. Her mom comes down, freaks, then gives us a 40 minute lecture about teens being abstinent. I dont understand girls at all and i dont think i ever will

Did she get mad at you afterwards?

If so, step one is to gut her and leave her for sharks.

Also, I'd avoid people like that if I were you. They're fucking insane in the long run.

Posted: Jun 07 2011 09:51 pm

So, I was talking to my lady and well, I brought up the fact that I'm looking for a job anywhere in the country and that I've already applied to places like California, Alaska, Washington and North Dakota. Well she asked me if I put her into consideration. I said I am but that I'm looking for anything and anywhere, something that I can start making a living with. I guess I got her upset because she started crying and just kept saying that I should hang up.
Am I wrong in saying that I want to find a job where I can fulfill my desire to work in forestry or natural resources? Should I have just said I'm only applying between our states or that I should just give up and stay with my crappy toll booth job?

Posted: Jun 07 2011 09:53 pm

If you want the job go for it. Don't get stuck somewhere because of someone that wouldn't move for you. (She'll just throw it back in your face that you won't stay for her) I say find the job and if she doesn't want to go with you, it's time to hit the market again. No sense living life doing something you hate.

Posted: Jun 08 2011 12:31 pm

Slayer1 wrote:

So, I was talking to my lady and well, I brought up the fact that I'm looking for a job anywhere in the country and that I've already applied to places like California, Alaska, Washington and North Dakota. Well she asked me if I put her into consideration. I said I am but that I'm looking for anything and anywhere, something that I can start making a living with. I guess I got her upset because she started crying and just kept saying that I should hang up.
Am I wrong in saying that I want to find a job where I can fulfill my desire to work in forestry or natural resources? Should I have just said I'm only applying between our states or that I should just give up and stay with my crappy toll booth job?

Oooh, you just described my last breakup. Honestly, it boils down to this: she is concerned because you might move and aren't considering her feelings about it. But Dousche is right. If she isn't willing to move for you, and she expects you to stay for her, that's a problem of expectations. It's unfair for her to ask for a sacrifice that she's not willing to make herself.

That said, don't jump the gun like I did. It's only an issue if you get another job someplace. Until then, it's just conjecture. I'm not saying that you aren't going to get a job somewhere else that's better that aforementioned crappy tollbooth, but until you know for a fact that you'll have to move, there's really no reason to fight about it

Posted: Jun 08 2011 11:17 pm

Ok. Long story short:

I liked this guy since sixth grade. In my sophomore year of high school, he finally noticed me and we had a thing. I was naive and thought it was a relationship. Turns out he had just been using me and I had essentially been a booty call.

Now for the past year he won't leave me alone if he's single. Like if he has a gf, he drops me. I know that he is just wanting me for a fix when he's lonely. I don't know how to shake him. He leads me on and gets me to fall for him, then I find out from some outside source that he has a gf and I don't hear from him again.. Twice he's somehow done this, and now he's back trying to do it again. What do I do to make him go away for good?

Posted: Jun 08 2011 11:35 pm

The Flaming Schnitzel wrote:

Ok. Long story short:

I liked this guy since sixth grade. In my sophomore year of high school, he finally noticed me and we had a thing. I was naive and thought it was a relationship. Turns out he had just been using me and I had essentially been a booty call.

Now for the past year he won't leave me alone if he's single. Like if he has a gf, he drops me. I know that he is just wanting me for a fix when he's lonely. I don't know how to shake him. He leads me on and gets me to fall for him, then I find out from some outside source that he has a gf and I don't hear from him again.. Twice he's somehow done this, and now he's back trying to do it again. What do I do to make him go away for good?

Castrate him. It's the only way he'll learn. It's a lot harder to be a dick when you don't have one.

Slayer1 wrote:

So, I was talking to my lady and well, I brought up the fact that I'm looking for a job anywhere in the country and that I've already applied to places like California, Alaska, Washington and North Dakota. Well she asked me if I put her into consideration. I said I am but that I'm looking for anything and anywhere, something that I can start making a living with. I guess I got her upset because she started crying and just kept saying that I should hang up.
Am I wrong in saying that I want to find a job where I can fulfill my desire to work in forestry or natural resources? Should I have just said I'm only applying between our states or that I should just give up and stay with my crappy toll booth job?

Honestly, I sympathize with her. I can't see ever giving up my entire life for a slightly better job. Finding new housing, making new friends, finding new takeout places that I like... seems like a major fucking pain in the ass. And of course she's upset. You're willing to give up your entire life and move anywhere in the country to try and make more money. You're basically telling her that she doesn't matter to you, and the implication is that you probably never did. I mean, really, what did you expect her to say? If a girlfriend ever told me that she was considering moving out of state, I'd dump her on the spot and never talk to her again. Ever. Not even she found out she was pregnant with my child the next day. Fucking bitch. You should have thought about that before you starting planning to abandon me, you fucking turncoat bitch.

Posted: Jun 09 2011 12:32 am

The Flaming Schnitzel wrote:

Ok. Long story short:

I liked this guy since sixth grade. In my sophomore year of high school, he finally noticed me and we had a thing. I was naive and thought it was a relationship. Turns out he had just been using me and I had essentially been a booty call.

Now for the past year he won't leave me alone if he's single. Like if he has a gf, he drops me. I know that he is just wanting me for a fix when he's lonely. I don't know how to shake him. He leads me on and gets me to fall for him, then I find out from some outside source that he has a gf and I don't hear from him again.. Twice he's somehow done this, and now he's back trying to do it again. What do I do to make him go away for good?

Fuck him. Just stop talking to him, stop responding to him, stop seeing him. Cut him off cold. It's hard but it works. Shock therapy is the way to go, and he'll eventually take a hint.

Posted: Jun 09 2011 12:35 am

Syd Lexia wrote:

Slayer1 wrote:

So, I was talking to my lady and well, I brought up the fact that I'm looking for a job anywhere in the country and that I've already applied to places like California, Alaska, Washington and North Dakota. Well she asked me if I put her into consideration. I said I am but that I'm looking for anything and anywhere, something that I can start making a living with. I guess I got her upset because she started crying and just kept saying that I should hang up.
Am I wrong in saying that I want to find a job where I can fulfill my desire to work in forestry or natural resources? Should I have just said I'm only applying between our states or that I should just give up and stay with my crappy toll booth job?

Honestly, I sympathize with her. I can't see ever giving up my entire life for a slightly better job. Finding new housing, making new friends, finding new takeout places that I like... seems like a major fucking pain in the ass. And of course she's upset. You're willing to give up your entire life and move anywhere in the country to try and make more money. You're basically telling her that she doesn't matter to you, and the implication is that you probably never did. I mean, really, what did you expect her to say? If a girlfriend ever told me that she was considering moving out of state, I'd dump her on the spot and never talk to her again. Ever. Not even she found out she was pregnant with my child the next day. Fucking bitch. You should have thought about that before you starting planning to abandon me, you fucking turncoat bitch.

i can see both sides of this situation.

personally, it would depend on the state she would move to. if its some fuck-state somewhere in the midwest, i would tell her FUCK THAT. if it was back to cali, or even florida or new york, i would consider it.

Posted: Jun 09 2011 12:56 am

The Flaming Schnitzel wrote:

Ok. Long story short:

I liked this guy since sixth grade. In my sophomore year of high school, he finally noticed me and we had a thing. I was naive and thought it was a relationship. Turns out he had just been using me and I had essentially been a booty call.

Now for the past year he won't leave me alone if he's single. Like if he has a gf, he drops me. I know that he is just wanting me for a fix when he's lonely. I don't know how to shake him. He leads me on and gets me to fall for him, then I find out from some outside source that he has a gf and I don't hear from him again.. Twice he's somehow done this, and now he's back trying to do it again. What do I do to make him go away for good?

There are many ways to get rid of someone for good. The key is making sure if looks like an accident.